I got ya.

Just to clarify though, being internet savvy goes beyond frequenting forums. A quick Google search of your phone number brings up your thread on the Commander website as the 3rd site result. Throw in a few more keywords in the Google search and all your threads come up.

In other words, if you didn't want her to find these threads you can make it harder by removing easily searchable terms like your phone number and name. .... but then again there's probably enough key words that are necessary so it still wouldn't be difficult if she knows what she's doing.